Soon it will be 8 weeks and Harvey is unable to be expressed by a single person. He's just one of those cats that won't stay still, hisses, scratches, bites, tenses up and absolutely hates it being done. Seven different vets have done it now and they ALL needed assistance. I've never yet managed to do it completely. Now he's peeing everywhere he sleeps due to the meds and he's lying in it, getting covered and hates me cleaning him. He's miserable with this and he's locked in a crate at night so as to be in my bedroom and not locked in the kitchen which is more hygienic but I hate leaving him alone. He has a miserable life because for 3 weeks I've been taking him to the vets for expressing and they've told me that it can't continue, I have to be able to express him at home - and I can't
I've asked around if anyone would foster him and give him that special care of expressing but no-one has come back to me.
I think my little angel was sent to me for only a short time as I know I need to let him go any day now. This is incredibly heart-breaking to write about and I feel like a potential murderer by doing this but sadly he's not getting better and he cannot be cared for.
Is there any hope at all because if I've overlooked that "miracle cure" and find it later down the line I will live with the burden of grief and guilt forever. help!
